Rich;
I'm nobody when it comes to Lycoming, but I do know a thing or 2 about stainless steel.
Stainless steel nuts will gaul on stainless steel studs. I have much better luck with stainless steel nuts on carbon steel studs. I have had a lot better results getting them to come apart. My experience is in Marine Diesels, and some hydraulic hose fittings out in the salt water. JIC stainless fittings are hard, so they need lots of torque to seal. Then they fuse together and the threads stick. So we used plain steel hose ends on the stainless steel bulkhead fittings. Worked great for the 2 year life of the hoses (weathering in the salt water and sun).
I found Grade C Toplock nuts to be very effective at holding high vibration exhaust system flange bolts together, yet they still unthread, instead of rusting together. Use nickel antiseize too.
http://almabolt.com/pages/catalog/nuts/lock.htm This would be much cheaper than the silver plated stop nuts Continental specs for exhaust studs...
So my 2c would be to inspect the studs, and if they pass inspection, use antiseize with the Lycoming spec nut, or try the Toplocks if they are cheaper, and if you like the way they look/work.
They are punched around the top instead of cut and pressed like aviation high temp lock nuts, but they do the same thing.
Here is Fastenall's page:
http://www.fastenal.com