Hi Dan,
I know David uses the 18mm auto plugs so there is no need for an adapter. The P-Mag installation manual has a few plugs listed that customers have used (they won't actually make a recommendation due to liability). If you read through their service notes they specifically warn against using the 18mm plugs. I put in the NGK BR8EIX plugs with the solid end (not the threaded ferrule). They were a little more expensive than the standard NGK plugs, but they are supposed to last a lot longer. I ordered them from Amazon.
http://www.emagair.com/service-notes/The screw on ferrule is probably fine if you put a little locktite on it, but the solid ones cannot unscrew. The part number for the solid is #6747 and screw on is #5044. I think the iridium are about $7 or $8 each. The standard NGK plugs can be ordered either way also, #3961 (solid) and 5422 (screw on).
I run one Bendix mag and one P-mag. Better starts, smoother idle and maybe a little smoother at cruise. Both electronic would be better for efficiency, but still don't totally trust two of them. I may reconsider the next time the mag craps out and just put another P-mag on.
Hopefully David reads this and responds or I will contact him directly. Might be a good idea to call E-Mag and find out what the specific problem with the 18mm auto plugs.